We’ve all experienced it, at any age. It’s frustrating and annoying.
You find yourself having this battle with just about anyone of the opposite sex.
A man does it with a woman and a woman does it with a man.
No matter what is being said a man feels like he is always right…..maybe a man coined the term double standard too? Since they like living it so much!
Lol seriously though. I can’t even begin to tell you the many times I’ve been in arguments such as
Man: She slept with the homie, she’s a hoe, slut, thot, etc
Me: And guys do it too! They are thots and sluts too.
Man: Chill that’s not the same thing. We don’t get called those names…or we do it different
……I could continue but you get the point. Men don’t get called the names they created for women because they want to be dominant but GUYS LISTEN UP! You are those names too if you proceed with the same actions. #JustSaying
I DON’T understand how most people can be one sided on certain situations. If it hurts you to be called a name, then don’t call anyone else it! Simple!
Double Standards come in many shapes, styles and forms.
In relationships, there should be no need because the two of you become one. However, it cannot be stopped unless society stops it altogether so it continues! It shouldn’t happen at all!
Here’s a tip!
For example, SEX numbers…lalala everyone’s favorite discussion. It is debated on social media, on TV shows like Guy Code, amongst friends, etc
In relationships only you two can decide whether or not you care about how many people the other slept with! It’s your boyfriend/girlfriend. Don’t try to add numbers by 2 or 12 because not every woman lies like that and neither does guys.
Does it really matter? You sleep with them anyway!
If you create one and you’re single, then cool.
If you create one and you’re working things out with someone or you are considering it, well then how do you think you look? How can he/she take you seriously when you are doing the opposite!
Then he/she gets an online dating site too and you catch a ‘tude about it?