So lately I have been seeing many self esteem videos and people who lack thereof and I just can’t shake this off.
It made me think about the one thing most people ask, but don’t ask the right person.
Am I good enough? Or was I good enough?
But to whom?
Right now, I’m talking about to the parents.
As a child you are just shaping who you want to be. You work your way up to “what you wanna be when you grow up” and you look up to people.
When you become a young adult, you are still exploring life as brand new changes occur.
As an adult, you become wiser as you age and look back at your childhood and it’s like looking through a magnifying glass or a crystal clear mirror.
If you’re anything like me, you had the parent that was verbally abusive. Always yelling at you for no reason!
Then again, everyone’s childhood is different. I wish I had the 2 parent household with a home I can grow up in and just be a child. One can dream right?
Sooooo you push yourself to do better, to become better! To show them that you are better than what they see or what they once were. Some never notice though.
Shade But No Shade 