Clean Up Your Mess!

Lately, I have been having the same discussions with 2 different people and get the same feedback.

No offense boys….

No offense men….

But why you gotta be so messy?!!

Now I must say my current bf makes his messes and …

IT IS STARTING TO DRIVE ME CRAZY!!

My best friend is dealing with the same issue, but her bf is a little more messier.

But my boyfriend and I just got an apartment together….

Ladies and gentlemen…

It’s only been a month and I already see the man slob.

SMH!

I get that sometimes you are a busy person and just want to throw clothes here and there but….when you have that day off, don’t you think you should pick it up?

YES YOU!

Him too, I guess 😀

Pure example…(my I use ellipses a lot..oops! Moving on..) After doing a butt-load of house cleaning 2 weeks ago; organizing the things we have in our 2 bedroom apartment with no furniture but at least it isn’t all cluttered in the living room with the dog….we accumulate laundry. His load higher than mine because he works every day and I am home at the moment.

Granted, we didn’t have a laundry bag because the bags were at the laundromat for drop off…yeah he hates washing clothes and swooped me into drop offs too…but when the bag came and it appeared empty, you would have thought he would put the dirty clothes in the laundry bag! Especially if he makes a new mess every day!

nasty

#Myfeelingsrightnow

He didn’t….that’s right ladies, shake your head because I am shaking it too.

I needed a break! I broke my back (not literally) cleaning the whole apartment and he can’t do the least thing. Just like when we got the clothes back, you would think he would organize and put them away…nope and they are still not put away because I take me time every day and he goes to work every day!

Then just yesterday he hooked the bathroom up with a softer seat, shower curtain and rugs and you would think he would throw away the plastics it came in…the garbage is right there!

NOPE!

Do I have to blow up for him to get the point?!!

anger

Maybe….but I’ll talk to him about it instead. It’s just ugghhh!

I don’t mind being a housewife even though I don’t have a ring yet, but boyfriend needs to clean after himself cause he is not too busy to stay clean….

If you can shower, you can NOT be messy!

Good thing it is only 2 things so far, but geez…..I will train my son whenever I have him to be clean, not messy.

Oops did I say 2? Yeah I meant 3….I looked up as I thought about if this was enough and saw a pile of games on the floor (Oh, I am sitting on an airbed right now).

He scattered ps4 and Wii games all over to find one ps4 game…expecting me to clean it up….right?  RIGHT? Well I am NOT because it is his mess. SMH! #RantOver

Come on boys and men, tell me why you guys feel the need to be messy and expect women to clean up after you? 

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9 thoughts on “Clean Up Your Mess!

  1. I’ve wondered the same. My husband is pretty messy too. He’s not as bad as most, but I’m used to dating men with spotless homes prior to him and so even his smaller messes drive me up a wall. It’s the unfortunate role of a woman in a relationship. If we want our homes clean, we can either do it ourselves or move out…

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  2. You might not know this, but girls can be slobs, too. I remember having a roommate in college who left all her clothes on the floor, as well as books, laptops, and other items that risked me almost breaking my neck trying to get past them. Also happens!

    …as for boys, though, my belief is that they grew up never having to clean up after themselves, because their moms always did it! Boys tend to be more spoiled by their mothers, so I can see perhaps your BF sees you as his mom! Just a thought. 😛

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    • Of course I know girls can be messy too! I had a roommate in college as well where her hair was all over the carpet and her room was a mess….so I understand completely!! But u hit the nail on the head with boys/men….that mama figure still in them…I heard there’s a new Jlo song out that says I Ain’t Your Mama…maybe they should listen or my bf should 😛 lol

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